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Esther Enaruwe

Esther Enaruwe, BACP

United Kingdom

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BACP counsellor - life direction and relationships

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • CBT and client-centred

About Esther

Esther Enaruwe is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with three years' experience. She works with people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression and life transitions. Esther also supports those facing trauma, relationship difficulties and questions of identity including LGBT concerns and issues around intimacy and attachment.

Her approach is straightforward and conversational. Sessions are a place to talk through what is happening now and what led to it. Esther uses Client-Centred Therapy to follow the person’s concerns and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to notice unhelpful thoughts and try different responses.

Esther also draws on existential and psychodynamic ideas to look at meaning, past patterns and how early relationships shape current behaviour. That can help when someone feels stuck in repeating the same relationships or coping strategies. She balances practical problem solving with time to understand what matters most to the client.

People bring a wide range of concerns, from addictions and eating or sleeping problems to career uncertainty, parenting strain, grief and chronic illness. Esther notes specific focus areas such as abandonment, body image and communication difficulties when these are part of a person’s story.

Her style is candid and down-to-earth. She acknowledges the fear many feel about starting therapy, and works at a pace people can manage. To begin, clients follow the platform’s matching steps and arrange a first session through the booking system.

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following what the person brings. Online sessions can still use this approach by giving space to talk and reflecting back what matters most to the client. It is useful for people who want to feel understood and have their own priorities guide the work.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at thoughts, behaviours and practical changes. In online meetings this often involves noticing patterns together, trying simple experiments and practising different responses between sessions. CBT can be helpful for anxiety, mood changes and coping strategies.

Esther aims to work collaboratively to find the best fit. She will discuss which approaches suit the person’s needs, goals and preferences rather than assuming one method for everyone. Deciding how to proceed is part of the early sessions and is reviewed as work continues.

The original profile does not specify which online session formats are offered, so please confirm current options before booking. Many people find online sessions easier to fit around work, appointments and family life. Other practical benefits include shorter check-ins when time is limited, not needing to travel, and choosing a time that reduces disruption to daily routines.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression and coping with life changes. Other areas include trauma, relationship issues, addictions and identity concerns such as LGBT topics.

How would she describe her therapeutic style?

She uses a conversational, down-to-earth approach. Methods include Client-Centred Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy alongside existential and psychodynamic ideas.

How much experience does she have?

She has three years of professional experience working with a range of mental health and life concerns.

What credential and location are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and she does accept international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees structured?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the platform.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Esther EnaruweBACP

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