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Nels Rodwell

Nels Rodwell, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor for relationships and life purpose

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Attachment focused
  • Writing therapy

About Nels

Nels Rodwell is a counsellor registered as NCPS with 25 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She works with adults across a range of concerns including stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem and depression. She also offers coaching to help people reconnect with purpose after life changes.

Her approach draws on person-centred and cognitive behavioural ideas combined with attachment-focused and emotionally-focused work. Sessions are conversational and practical. She listens for patterns in relationships and everyday thinking, then helps people try small changes that can reduce distress and improve connection with others.

Nels trained in Person Centred, Gestalt and CBT and blends talking therapy with creative options such as writing therapy. She also practices dual work that includes counselling alongside massage in face-to-face sessions, though that applies only to in-person work rather than remote sessions.

She helps people untangle issues such as abandonment, attachment difficulties, avoidant or dependent personality patterns, codependency and problems with commitment or control. She also supports people dealing with separation, domestic violence, dissociation and the aftermath of disasters.

The focus in sessions is on developing self-awareness, responsibility and practical tools. People can expect straightforward conversations about feelings and behaviour, experiments to test new approaches, and work aimed at improving relationships and day-to-day functioning. To begin, clients follow the site's matching and booking process to arrange an initial session.

How attachment, CBT and person-centred work translate to remote sessions

Attachment-based work focuses on how relationships shape feelings and reactions. In plain terms the therapist helps people notice patterns in how they relate to others and to themselves, and then practises different ways of connecting that feel safer and more effective.

Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It involves identifying unhelpful thinking, testing those ideas in daily life and building small habits that change how someone feels and behaves.

Person-centred practice puts the client's experience at the centre and uses listening and reflection to help people clarify what matters to them. This can be useful for life-purpose questions and for making decisions after big changes.

Finding the right mix of these approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs, and together they will choose methods that fit the person's situation and priorities.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find remote sessions fit into their week more easily, allow shorter check-ins when time is limited, and remove the need to travel. The therapist will help arrange a pattern of meetings that suits everyday life while focusing on steady progress.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Coaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression and life-purpose questions.

How does she approach someone feeling stuck?

She combines person-centred listening with CBT-style experiments and attachment-focused work to identify patterns and try practical changes.

How long has she practised?

She has 25 years of professional experience working with adults in counselling and related therapeutic roles.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered NCPS and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are accepted; confirm any practical details during the booking process.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the first steps to start therapy?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

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