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Tanya Ellis

Tanya Ellis, BACP, NCPS

United Kingdom

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Counsellor - Life purpose and relationships

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Grief and loss
  • Attachment work

About Tanya

Tanya Ellis is a counsellor registered with BACP and NCPS and has seven years of experience working in the United Kingdom. She sees people coping with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, addictions and major life changes. Tanya also notes a focus on life purpose, attachment issues and multicultural concerns.

She keeps sessions straightforward and conversational. Tanya uses client-centred work alongside cognitive behavioural techniques to help people identify what matters and change unhelpful patterns. She draws on emotionally focused and attachment-based ideas when relationships or connection feel central to the problem.

In practice she listens for practical patterns that get in the way of daily life. That can mean looking at thought habits, emotional reactions or how someone manages stress and responsibility. She offers strategies to try between meetings as well as time to talk things through in the session itself.

Tanya’s background includes time at a local agency, hospice work and private practice in Buckinghamshire. Those settings inform how she works with grief, end-of-life concerns and carers dealing with stress.

People often come to her when they feel stuck after a change at work, a relationship loss, or when anxiety and low mood limit day-to-day functioning. Tanya aims to help clients notice small shifts that add up to clearer priorities and steadier routines.

Practical matters are part of the work. She discusses goals, options and what to try next, and reviews progress as sessions continue. Those wanting to begin are invited to follow the site booking steps to complete a short questionnaire and schedule a first session.

How Tanya’s methods translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters and take small actions that reflect those values despite difficult thoughts. It can be useful for anxiety, low mood and feeling unsure about direction. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how past and present relationships shape emotional responses and can help when connection or trust is a central concern.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tanya discusses different methods with each client and makes decisions together based on goals and preferences. That collaborative process means techniques can be adjusted as issues change over time.

Please confirm which session formats are currently offered before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats. Online sessions can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins if needed, and remove travel time. When sessions use video it supports face-to-face conversation; audio-only can be a simpler option when bandwidth or cameras are impractical. Registered and accredited professionals can adapt exercises, homework and conversational tools to work in a remote format, helping clients apply practical changes in everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impaired

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational Interviewing

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

Tanya works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, addictions and life changes, and notes a focus on life purpose and attachment issues.

How would she describe her approach to feeling stuck?

She uses client-centred listening alongside cognitive behavioural techniques and emotionally-focused ideas to identify patterns and practical steps to try between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of experience working in the UK, including agency, hospice and private practice settings.

What are her listed credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with BACP and NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be held in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with clients outside the UK?

She accepts international clients.

How are sessions charged and what is the cost structure?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the steps to start working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button on the site, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Tanya EllisBACP, NCPS

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