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Timothy Dearhamer

Timothy Dearhamer, LCSW, LISW

Oklahoma

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LCSW and LISW focused on life transitions and relationships

  • Life purpose work
  • Anxiety and stress
  • Relationship concerns

About Timothy

Timothy Dearhamer is an Oklahoma-licensed clinical social worker. He holds LCSW and LISW credentials and has five years of professional experience helping adults navigate life transitions and persistent stressors.

He often works with people feeling stuck after a change in work, relationships, or health. Common concerns include anxiety, depression, grief, parenting pressures, and questions about life purpose. He also supports people dealing with trauma, intimacy issues, sexual concerns, and multicultural or LGBT-related matters.

In sessions he uses straightforward conversation and evidence-informed approaches. He draws on methods such as cognitive behavioral techniques and acceptance and commitment strategies to help people notice patterns, test new behaviors, and clarify what matters most. Attachment-focused ideas and emotionally-focused work guide how he talks about relationships and closeness.

Timothy aims to make therapy practical. He helps people identify small steps they can try between sessions and checks what works. He also addresses communication problems, fatherhood issues, divorce and separation, and family of origin concerns when those themes come up.

People who choose his care can expect a respectful, direct way of working that focuses on present struggles and concrete next steps. He accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

Therapeutic approaches and working online

Timothy uses a mix of approaches that focus on thoughts, values, and relationships. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts and behaviors keep problems going and offers practical exercises to change unhelpful patterns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and practice small steps toward those values while learning to live with difficult feelings. Emotionally-Focused and attachment-informed ideas guide work on relationship patterns and closeness, helping people understand how their early bonds affect current relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. He will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, and then suggest approaches to try. That shared decision-making helps match methods to the issue at hand, whether it is anxiety, grief, or questions about life purpose.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove commuting time. It also lets people continue care after a move or when juggling work and family demands. Licensed professionals will discuss practical scheduling details and what to expect in a first meeting.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Communication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameLife purposeMulticultural concernsSexual dysfunctionSexuality

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

Oklahoma, Iowa

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting pressures, relationship and intimacy concerns, trauma, and questions around life purpose.

How does he approach someone who feels stuck?

He uses practical conversation and evidence-informed methods including cognitive behavioral techniques and acceptance and commitment ideas to clarify values and try small behavioral changes.

What experience does he bring to this work?

He has five years of professional experience working with people on a range of concerns from parenting and fatherhood issues to communication problems and multicultural matters.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He holds LCSW and LISW credentials and is licensed in Oklahoma. His practice notes those credentials as LCSW and LISW.

Can I work with him if I live outside the United States?

He accepts international clients. Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats does he offer?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to meet with him?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the crisis numbers.

Timothy DearhamerLCSW, LISW

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